Hell has broked loose!

The outcome is as expected without fail, this is the type of predicable outcome without the advantage of pre-knowledge.

Either side has lost in this case but gain the release of the agony that each is giving to each other (or so they think).

The middleman has again suffered the maximum damage when both sides is blaming him for bad handling.

The irony for not accepting the alternatives suggested by the middleman then turning around to blame him is chutzpah!

The lack of willingness of either to choose the alternative offer as it is seen as a "backdown" from either side giving the impression of giving in thus a disadvantage. Considering the concequence of the "confrontation" the "disadvantage" might be an advantage.

Too late for all this as hell has broken loose and the shit has hit the fan...

A political situation of my life.

The lack of communication between each parties has lead to all the misunderstandings.

Both sides have kept insisting on their position with considerations of each held firmly. Past encountered between the parties has also been repeatly brought up during the confrontation period.

With such an situation, the middleman will be unable to play any effective role as either side will deem that it is an act of war against to each. The outcome will likely be lose-lose for all parties, especially the middleman which has an vested interest in both parties.

Time after time, the middleman has been caught in similar situation without the ability to overcome them, the occurances has always negate all the effort previously taken by all parties.

The process of buliding up the relationship has to be restart without any clear possibility of an good outcome, all parties has became fatigue of the situation and whenever any contentious issue arises, either party immediately is prepared to return to confrontation mode.

And the circle just keeps repeating itself, like a curse in hell for all the sins one has committed in his life time and the one before that.

 

Sounds like the North and South situation? Actually it is the story of my life... ... sad :(

Hi:

There is job for System engineers at ST Aerospace. As long as you have a degree and are logical in thinking and have interest in the following:
1) Computer hardware, Client/Server application, LAN technology, Network management, Digital video streaming, VOIP
2) Writing logical system level requirement for software implementation
3) HMI design
4) Unmanned Aerial system
5) Asking alot of what if and finding out the answers yourself
6) Testing in-door and out-door
7) Dealing with difficult people

You should have the following quality
1) Never give up
2) Love challenge
3) Never give up
4) Multi-Task
5) Never give up

Fresh Grad or experienced, send your resume to ST Aerospace indicating UAV system engineer now!

Little Nonya.

What does I learn form it other than the obvious of remember your origin, perseverance, filial piety (孝) and be good?

Could we ever have too much of the above? My daughter in law sure think so of my son's filial piety.
My son has been thinking and finding a way for us to be more involve in our grandchildren, such as
1. staging for us to look after them so his wife can go back to work (she is on no pay leave for the past 4 years, after falling out with my wife who was looking after the kids then, detail maybe in later post).
2. moving closer to us (we gave up of the idea of them moving back with us, so does our son).

Our son has been trying all this years with no avail, either due to his wife or my wife (seem that it is quite difficult to put two women under one roof). Both me and my wife are hoping we are healthy and well till the day we die and if so unfortunately we are unable to look after ourself we would opt to stay in a old folks home. As we cannot imagine staying with one who has difficulty accepting us when we were healthy let alone if we are sickly.

Its the weekend again, the usually hope or hopeless.


Whenever it comes to weekend, we will hopefully hear our phone ring and hope that it will be my son who call to inform us that they (his family, our grandchildren) will be coming over for the day or not.


After 1 week of waiting, hopefully we will be given the good news of their visit sometime we are disappointed either one of the children is sick or my son has to work or ... ...


There comes a point where my wife begins to go into defensive where she would tell my son not to come over as we will be out even though we would spent the weekend alone. This is her way of preventing herself from being hurt when her hope is dash.

Happy New Year to All!


Wish that my children will all do well and happy this year.

This morning, while I was having my breakfast, a thought flashes across my mind. I was thinking what is my children and grandchildren having for breakfast today.

All parents will be thinking of what will their kids have for their meal everyday, but how many of them will be thinking of what is their parents are having? The parents spent all their life thinking of what to give their children but when the children grow up how often will they thnk of the what are their parent having today?

To all children, do spent some time each day to think of your parents as they have devoted their whole life considering for you even if it is at their own expense.

Hi all out there:

I am a old man from Singapore who will share my experiences in dealing my children. Here I hope to let the young people nowadays understand how we feeling and what we want.